Comments on: Goodbye Father…

By: Dysantic

Dysantic — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 03:39:00 +0000

Six months have passed since you’ve left us, Dad.

Since that day, I’ve taken on more responsibilities than I thought possible, and I wish that you were here to give me some of the advice that I usually didn’t ask for in the first place, yet you offered anyway. Believe me, I wouldn’t turn it down now. The tasks before me are so daunting that I sometimes feel as if I am never going to get them done.

Still, if there is one thing that I inherited from you (thank goodness not your hair line – that will NEVER be my future no matter what you say!), it was your resolve and determination to see things through. The house was your one failing moment, but that was because you were busy doing all the things you were so passionate about. Getting the stories about the Canadian Military into the news, working as an Aide de Camp for the Lieutenant Governor of Ontario, your involvement with the Toronto Scottish Regiment and the Cadets, your work at the RCMI, the list goes on and on, and yet you also somehow managed to take care of us as well. You were truly a magnificent man… this I always knew, but now sadly fully appreciate too late.

Time may pass, but the pain of your passing does not. I feel lost without you, yet I must try to somehow go on, and ensure that everything gets done properly and seen through to the end. You would settle for nothing less, and neither should I.

I miss you, Father. I love you, ‘addy.

By: Linz

Linz — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:11:05 +0000

Hey Ev – just writing to let you know that Mike and I are thinking about you and Molly during this sad time. It is never easy, so lean on us as much as you can. To laugh, to cry, whatever you need we are here for you.

I’ll never forget the story you told me about your dad surprising you with a birthday cake outside of your appartment. He truly was a wonderful man, so caring and full of life. Our ultimate pictures will never be the same.

Seeyou Saturday and if you need anything at all let us know.

Linz

By: Erin Surtees (doesn't have the same ring as Cybulski)

Erin Surtees (doesn't have the same ring as Cybulski) — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 18:31:24 +0000

Evan,
So sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do to help please don’t hesitate to let me know. I’m sure you must have inherited your good nature from your father. He truly sounds like a selfless and caring man.

I want to comment; I notice the picture of your Dad looking at the camera while sitting in the Mandarin restaurant. Did he love that place as much as I do?

By: Chrissy

Chrissy — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 18:12:47 +0000

Hi Evan
Although I did not know your dad, I have heard that he was a very selfless man. The stories of his generosity and giving nature will be inspirational to more people than you may know. My thoughts are with you, Molly and your entire family during this difficult time. As I have said to Molly, I am here to help with anything you or your family may need.
Chrissy

By: matthew

matthew — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 16:22:55 +0000

Evan, it is with sorrow that I have heard of your father’s passing. Growing up, you don’t really appreciate the often ‘hidden’ job your dad does in raising you in addition to being a provider, offering guidance and being a mentor. Both my parents have passed away now, with my father only recently (Sept 07). It’s only after some time and personal reflection do you feel somewhat more at peace with that situation and our own mortality. I can tell you were close to your father and offer any support I can in this difficult time for you.

“When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.” ~Mark Twain

By: Adam

Adam — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 16:22:15 +0000

Evan, I cant even put to words… I am sorry to hear about your loss. If there is anything I can do let me know.

Adam

By: Jon

Jon — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 15:56:40 +0000

So sorry to hear about your dad.
A sad day my friend.
Take care buddy.
-Jon

By: Laura

Laura — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 15:29:15 +0000

Evan,

I’m sorry for your loss. Greg, the boys and myself send our sympathies to you and yours.

Laura, Greg, Elric & Luc

By: Kimli

Kimli — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 03:24:14 +0000

I’m sorry Evan I lost my dad in ‘05, and I know how hard it is.

By: Christie

Christie — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 03:07:23 +0000

Evan, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved your father and how important he was to your life. If you need anything at all. I am only a phone call and a few blocks away.

love,

Christie